The Language of the Fan A 19th Century Dialog of Gesture ~ Intrigue ~ Romance & Proper Etiquette
If You Want to Convey: Sir I Desire Your Proper Acquaintance. Carry Your Closed Fan in Your "Left" Hand and Hold it Briefly and Repeatedly in Front of Your Face.
If You Want to Convey: I Wish to Speak Privately with You Sir. Close Your Fan in Front of the Gentleman and Walk Slowly to Where You Want to Meet Him.
If You Want to Convey: Follow Me Sir. Carry Your Closed Fan in Your "Right" Hand, Holding Briefly in Front of Your Face, Making Sure That Only the Gentleman Sees.
If You Want to Convey: Please Wait For Me Sir. Open Your Fan Wide, but Do Not Wave it and Turn so Only the Gentleman Sees.
If You Want to Convey: Sir, We are Being Watched. Close Your Fan and Twirl it in Your "Left" Hand and Walk Away if You are Not Seated, or Look the Other Way if Seated.
If You Want to Convey: My Good Sir, I truly Love You. Discreetly and Slowly Draw Your Fan Downward Along Either the Right or Left the Side of Your Face or Cheek, Opposite From Public View.
If You Want to Convey: Goodness Sir, Yes; or Kind Sir, I Certainly Will. Rest Your Fan Closed on Your "Right" Cheek, Facing So Only the Gentleman Sees.
If You Want to Convey: My Dear Sir, Do You Love Me. Discreetly Present Your Fan for a Moment in Front of Your Face, "Closed".
If You Want to Convey: No How Dare You Sir; or Sir, I Certainly Will Not. Rest Your Fan closed on Your "Left" Cheek and Ignore the Gentleman.
If You Want to Convey: My Apologies Sir, I Love Another. Twirl Your Fan Closed in Your "Right" Hand and Look Down.
If You Want to Convey: Sir You Frighten Me; and/or Sir You are Too Willing. Hold the Handle of Your Fan in Either Hand Up to Your Lips.
If You Want to Convey: Sir, You Have Changed; or Sir, You are Not the Same as before. Draw Your Closed Fan Across Your Forehead and Look Pleased if You Approve of the Change or Sad if You Do Not Approve.
If You Want to Convey: Sir, I Strongly Wish You Would Leave at Once; or Please Sir, Get Away From Me, I Have No Interest in Being Around You At All. Place Your Closed Fan on Your "Left" Ear and hold it there.
If You Want to Convey: Sir I think You Are Despicable; or I Hate You Sir. Draw Your Closed Fan Repeatedly in an Agitated Manner Through Your "Left" Hand and Sow a Scowl When No One is Looking.
If You Want to Convey: Sir, I am so Very Sorry; or Please Sir, Forgive Me. Draw Your Closed Fan Across Your Eyes.
If You Want to Convey: Sir, You Are So Very Cruel; or Sir, You Have Hurt Me Dearly. Repeatedly Open and Shut Your Fan Several Times Holding it in Front of You at Your Waist in an Agrivated Manner.
If You Want to Convey: Sir, How Dare You, I am Engaged. Open Your Fan and Flutter Fan it on Your Face and Chest Quickly and Look Away From the Gentleman.
If You Want to Convey: Sir, You May Think You Have Caught My Fancy, but I am Married. Open Your Fan and Fan Your Face "Slowly", and Look Away From the Gentleman.
If You Want to Convey: I May or May Not Be Flirting With You, but Let Us be Friends; or We Can Only Be Just Friends, but I Like Your Respectful Attention. Drop Your Fan on the Floor or Ground in Front of You and Wait For the Gentleman to Pick it Up, a Message Also Conveyed When Dropping Your Hanky or Mit. |
THE FAN:
Women not carrying on a conversation with their fan, hung them from their waist or tucked them away in a small hand-bag, but always kept them ready for use in any social setting at a moment's notice. Through the fan, acquaintances turned to love or rejection, all manner of secrets were passed, news and gossip were discretely communicated, and social standards were maintained. The folding skeletal structure of fans were usually made from bone, gutta-percha, lacquered wood and ivory, with artistic designs, icons and scenes intricately carved on each section. The body of fans were generally made of cloth, silk and sometimes exotic colored feathers. The body portion was often decorated with hand painted scenes and some more expensive and prized fans were studded with gems, and/or sterling silver sequins and 24 kt gold ribbon. |
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